50个建议让人生更幸福
1. Listening enough to care and caring enough to listen.
倾听以关怀，关怀以倾听。
2. Being a dreamer but not living in a dream world.
做个理想家，但不能活在梦幻的世界里。
3. Saying "It doesn't matter" and meaning it.
用心说句：没关系。
4. Being a positive influence in any way possible, to as many as possible, for as long as I possibly can.
尽最大努力去积极地影响别人，越多越好，越久越好。
5. Balancing justice with mercy and fairness with commonsense.
以怜悯之心权衡公正，以常识之态定义公平。
6. Being patient and patiently enduring.
切记有耐心，耐心至永远。
7. Earning credibility instead of demanding compliance.
用行动获取信任，而非强求顺从。
8. Valuing the wisdom of discernment(洞察力), the danger of pleasure without restraint, and the joy of victory with integrity(正直诚实).
注重洞察的智慧，莫忘纵欲的危险，享受真诚的胜利。
9. Being worthy of trust and trusting what's worthwhile.
不负信托，坚信正值。
10. Enjoying all things small and beautiful.
有为小事，欣赏美丽。
11. Words that heal.
12. Words that help.
13. And words that encourage.
11-13， 奉献心灵鸡汤。
14. Forgiving myself for what I've done and others for what they haven't.
宽恕自己，体谅他人。
15. Gaining what I desire without losing what I should gain.
努力奋斗，切莫捡了芝麻丢了西瓜。
16. Maintaining the passion of purpose while avoiding the pit falls of making hasty decisions with little or no discernment.
保持对目标的激情，三思而后行，以防陷阱。
17. Watching "You've Got Mail" one more time.
多看一眼：您有一封未读情书。
18. Enjoying life for all it holds instead of holding out for all it has yet to become.
享受生活所有，而非固执的等待未竟之事。
19. Giving praise without demands and encouragement without expectations.
多一些肺腑赞扬和鼓励，少一些要求和期望。
20. Hugs.
拥抱别人。
21. Healing wounds.
化解恩怨。
22. And helping people realize their dreams.
助人实现理想。
23. Knowing when I can, can't and shouldn't.
了解自己所能，进退有时
24. Laughter for the sake of laughter!
因可笑而笑。
25. Leading while not forgetting how to follow.
善于领导，不忘跟随。
26. Honoring the honorable and avoiding the painful errors of the disgraceful
知人善任，力避错误。
27. Knowing the power of commitment, the rewards of self-discipline and the meaning of faith in myself and others.
于己于人，了解承诺的力量，相信自律的回报，谙熟信念的意义。
28. Smiles -- lots of them.
多笑，常笑。
29. Learning as much as I can for as long as I can.
学海无涯苦作舟。
30. Standing for what's right when everything's wrong, and saying "I'm wrong" when something's not right.
众人皆醉我独醒，该进谏时就发言。
31. Letting the music play.
与乐为伴。
32. Knowing I can and seeking help when I can't.
相信自己，谦虚请教。
33. Just doing nothing at just the right time.
适时无为胜有为。
34. Filling my mind with all that is excellent, truthful, full of hope, and worthy of thinking about again.
常念卓越真理，充满希望生活，花些时间思考过去。
35. Kisses that say "I love you" more than "I need you."
多说“我爱你”，少说“我需要你”。
36. Treasuring ideas for their untapped(未发掘的) potential.
珍视新颖有潜力的思想。
37. Caring.
学着关心别人。
38. Giving.
学着给予。
39. And having fun.
享受上述过程。
40. Refusing to believe lies about myself or others regardless of the source -- including what I hear from within.
非礼勿视，非礼勿听。
41. Trusting enough to see good in people without blindly trusting in the goodness of all people.
相信别人的好处，但绝非盲目信赖。
42. Success without self-absorption.
分享成功。
43. Showing I know the difference between keeping the rules and listening with understanding.
知道如何区别遵守规则和心领神会，让别人看到。
44. Winning with dignity.
45. Losing with grace.
44-45，正直取胜，虽败犹荣。
46. And learning from both.
汲取上述真谛。
47. Believing in all my possibilities -- and yours too!
相信我们能够创造奇迹。
48. Appreciating the wisdom of maturity and the beauty of childhood.
欣赏成熟的智慧，感谢童年的美丽。
49. Avoiding the bondage of bitterness, the deceit of wealth without character, and the vanity of pride without gratefulness.
莫受苦难的束缚，莫收不义之财，摒弃冷漠的空虚自大。
50. Loving for all I'm worth because in the end it's worth it all.
热爱自己的执着，因为最后是它们让我们活有所值。
